One moonlight evening, in those far gone years, she told me this:
A woman who has sex 100 times with one man is no different than a woman who has sex with 100 men just one time each. Bottom line: both have sex 100 times.
and you agreed with her?
so if a woman had sex 0000's times?
Chameli, I'm a broad minded person. I respected all my girlfriends' opinions. It's their body, and their sovereign right to do what they want.
I told that particular one I disagreed and we left it at that and continued our relationship until she migrated from Guyana.
Thereafter, after 35 years we correspond on and off just as ordinary friends.
I've never been a possessive person, not even in marriage. I accept people for what they are and don't try to change them.