Men & women are not always blessed to get the fittest men/women to be their life partner, but we're content with our choices and make the best of it. Those who drools over Bollywood/Hollywood babes & hunks, is just a fantasy of what they would hope to have. My wife is the only one I complimented and admired because she is the one I have sleep beside when my fantasies are over. Many beautiful women grass has been eaten already.
Excellent post abidha!
Listen! In life you don't get what you want--you get what you deserve--and so every man or woman should be thankful for his or her spouse and treat him or her with love and respect.
Having said that, there is nothing wrong with fantasy---nothing wrong with a wife drooling over other men or a husband lusting over other women.
Reality can get boring--and so Nehru, for example, having fantasies over JLO's voluptuous butt---nothing wrong with that---those fantasies excite Nehru's brain cells.
BOTTOM LINE:
Admiring or fantasizing about people other than your spouse doesn't mean you love your spouse less---infact it sometimes makes you love your spouse more.
Rev