In order to save their daughters from being "stolen" by suitors, Kalaidzhi families typically marry off their daughters between the ages of 16 and 20 and pull them out of school by the eighth grade.

In Bulgaria's Stara Zagora, a controversial bride market is organised every spring where young girls, who are virgins, are paraded in front of suitors who bid on them. Known locally as the "Gypsy bride market", girls are seen in "long velvet skirts and brightly coloured headscarves" with gold jewellery shining on their necks, fingers, ears and teeth, as per a report in the New York Times.

Tradition

The 18,000-strong Kalaidzhi Roma clan in Bulgaria, a subset of the Roma people who face constant prejudice and exclusion across Europe, gathers annually for their largest gathering at the market. The market is held on the first Saturday of Orthodox Christian Lent. They engage in intricate discussions over a bride price that usually results in marriage. Consequently, this is among the limited chances for youth to interact with other Kalaidzhi and possible life partners. The clan does not appreciate dating and outside marriage is also frowned upon.

Good Looks Command The Price

An ethnographer of the Bulgarian Academy of Sciences, Velcho Krustev claims that "the man is not buying a wife, but her virginity." According to him, the bride's new family will treat her properly because of the cash.

Hristos Georgiev, aged 18, negotiated with the father of 18-year-old Donka Dimitrova, and bargaining narrowed between $7,500 to $11,300. As per the NYT, this is "well more than a year's worth of the average Bulgarian's wages". The boy said that he saved the money while working in Cyprus. Explaining the process, he said, "If she's really beautiful, the price can go up" to $13,000 and "great beauty" might even fetch $21,000, as per the outlet.

Women's Point Of View

In order to save their daughters from being "stolen" by suitors, Kalaidzhi families typically marry off their daughters between the ages of 16 and 20 and pull them out of school by the eighth grade. Kalaidzhi women have historically lit the flames for their husbands' crafts and woven dowries for their daughters. They work as assistant tinsmiths, mothers and wives. Education is not seen as a priority and one in five Bulgarian Roma women are illiterate. As per the estimates by the World Bank, only 10 per cent of women have secondary education.

Ms Dimitrova, who attained higher education than most girls in the clan, believes that one "shouldn't look at the money but at the person, his way of speaking, thinking, feeling and all the rest." Her cousin added that money "is no guarantee that the marriage will last forever. They can still find another better one 10 days later."

Complexities Involved

According to the documentary Young Brides for Sale by Milene Larsson and Alice Stein, the concept is more complex than it seems. "The bride market is an ancient tradition essential to the Kalaidzhi identity, which is why this custom has survived, but these days most girls have an element of choice - albeit shaped by family pressure - when it comes to whom they wed," the Swedish filmmaker said, as per News.com.au

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