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FM
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I am just coming to ask everyone to pray for my sister in law Suricka. Who is not only a SIL,but my best friend and sister.

Last Friday morning she was crossing Atlantic Ave going to the subway and get hit by a vehicle.

She got very bad brain damage and cannot breath on her own.
The doctors are saying there is not much else they can do now, but we are keeping the faith.

She has an eight years old daughter who is her whole life. I don't know how we are going to tell her that her mommy is not coming back to home to her. PLEASE PRAY FOR HER.

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Originally posted by sita:
Everyone..

My sister in law passed away this morning.

I know she never would have wanted this for her daughter, because she was four years old when her mother die and eight years old when her father die by accident in GY.

Thank everyone for your prayers.


It seems like the more things change, the more they remain the same. Frown

Really a sad situation. May God blanket your family with his comfort during these trying times especially the little one. May you sil reast in peace.
FM
quote:
Originally posted by sita:
Everyone..

My sister in law passed away this morning.

I know she never would have wanted this for her daughter, because she was four years old when her mother die and eight years old when her father die by accident in GY.

Thank everyone for your prayers.



Sita, I feel very sad to hear this. It is so hard when parents die and leave small children, who might not remember much about them when they get older.
My sister was murdered in Guyana and I immediately lost four days of memory. I saw photos of the funeral, but it took years for it to sink in.

As a volunteer, I discretely do pro video at funerals at the people's request. I have done so many using wireless microphones, that many people will not see me doing it.
I find this to be very important to the mouring/healing process, especially in a sudden death situation. Everyone tends to go into shock, but they seem to function normally.
Photos are good, but videos and sounds at a funeral,I find, are very important when young children are left behind.
I have known people who lock up the video for ten years or more, while they go thru the denial stage of mourning. When they reach the point of looking at it, a flood gate of emotions open and a release takes place.

As many of us know,mourning is a thing that the longer we hide it, the more difficult it becomes and it could reveal itself in many personal destructive ways, that might not be reversable.
If a video was available of my sister's funeral , I believe, it would not have taken 20 years to accept her death and it would have avoid many personal issues in my family, as we cope sooner.

My prayers are with your family during this difficult time.
Tola
Sita,
This is sad. My condolences and prayers to you and your family. I know that you will do every thing that youcan to provide the love and care for the little girl who is now mother less.

Thuis is a reminder to our GNI family that life is fragile , lets value our family relationship and spread a little more love .

God bless and at this time of sadness lets take a moment to pray.
Chief

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