My relationship with R is falling apart and I don't know what to do. We seem to be growing apart. I know many of you have been in long term relationships. Do you have any advice for me?
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Fool around a lil bit.
Bookman (Guest)
quote:Originally posted by BeautifulFreak:
My relationship with R is falling apart...Do you have any advice for me?
Move over to S.
Yu tellin the girl to huff it (him) from not eatin'?
(isn't this what was said when playing draughts?)
(isn't this what was said when playing draughts?)
Former Member
quote:Originally posted by BeautifulFreak:
My relationship with R is falling apart and I don't know what to do. We seem to be growing apart. I know many of you have been in long term relationships. Do you have any advice for me?
Good advise from he Cainsta below but the emphasis should be just the "lil bit" and if Mr. R is a Guyanese, watch out fu de 22 & the gramagzone bakkle
Can you give us some ideas as to what you think are the causes why it is falling apart? Is it financial, or are you not as attractive as before?
Go on a holiday together. 
I am surprised that the responses to this thread are so poor. I would have expected GNI to have an ample amount of professional advisers.
Former Member
quote:expected GNI to have an ample amount of professional advisers.
Professional Bull shitters with brain surgery degrees accented with rocket scientist complex is what you have here.
Is why you slagging off Pravi so early ?
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Former Member
quote:Originally posted by BeautifulFreak:
My relationship with R is falling apart and I don't know what to do. We seem to be growing apart. I know many of you have been in long term relationships. Do you have any advice for me?
Discipline determines success and destiny. It is the vital part in any relation. The commitment to fulfill your obligation or do your partâĶ.as a student, employee, lover, friend or even in a relationship with God. Contrary, undisciplined is like building a house of cards. Beautiful at first but once it collapse everyone else is at blame ....desire does not ultimately influence destiny.
My advise is for the "two" of you to sit down and go over the truth, reality and reasons why you/him are in this situation. Not to assign blame but to agree on an achievable and honest solution for the relationship. Even if that is to go separate ways as friend. It worth not having to hurt each other or live in uncertainty.
Former Member
quote:Originally posted by Dog Unleashed:
My advise is for the "two" of you to sit down and go over the truth, reality and reasons why you/him are in this situation. Not to assign blame but to agree on an achievable and honest solution for the relationship. Even if that is to go separate ways as friend. It worth not having to hurt each other or live in uncertainty.
I would have to say I agree with this
..relationship takes work...you don't just say you are in a relationship and thats it...you do things, you talk about things, you are very honest about things that way you don't step on each other toes, you also spend time apart when need be...from someone who just celebrated her 13th year and feels like we still just met each other stage...I have to admit I was/am very lucky! Most importantly...you gotta have fun together...like best friends. Obviously you and only you can tell whether or not his guy is interested in giving it a honest shot if not...maybe going your separate ways is the way to go for now. You can't keep someone where they don't want to be no matter how much you improve yourself or add to the relationship.
Former Member
Sorry to hear beautiful freak. Try doing new things that both of you may enjoy. (Playing a game, dance lessons, bowling etc.) Take a vacation to a place neither of you have visited. Also, ask him about what he wants to do.
Former Member
quote:Originally posted by cain:
Fool around a lil bit.
Fooling around even a "lil bit" never helped anyone but thanks!
Former Member
quote:Originally posted by Mr.T:
Can you give us some ideas as to what you think are the causes why it is falling apart? Is it financial, or are you not as attractive as before?
LOL...now why does me being attractive or lack of have to do with anything...and R thinks I'm the most beautiful woman in the entire universe!
That's not the issue!
Former Member
quote:Originally posted by Cher:quote:Originally posted by Dog Unleashed:
My advise is for the "two" of you to sit down and go over the truth, reality and reasons why you/him are in this situation. Not to assign blame but to agree on an achievable and honest solution for the relationship. Even if that is to go separate ways as friend. It worth not having to hurt each other or live in uncertainty.
I would have to say I agree with this
Most importantly...you gotta have fun together...like best friends. Obviously you and only you can tell whether or not his guy is interested in giving it a honest shot if not...maybe going your separate ways is the way to go for now. You can't keep someone where they don't want to be no matter how much you improve yourself or add to the relationship.
Thanks to both of you! You have given me some things to think about. It's time for me and R to sit down and have a heart to heart.
quote:Originally posted by BeautifulFreak:quote:Originally posted by Mr.T:
Can you give us some ideas as to what you think are the causes why it is falling apart? Is it financial, or are you not as attractive as before?
LOL...now why does me being attractive or lack of have to do with anything...and R thinks I'm the most beautiful woman in the entire universe!
That's not the issue!
You'll be surprised to learn that it is a very important consideration for many men. A man likes to be looking at someone who turns him on all the time. As you get older and spend more time on the kids, the man can easily feel that you are neglecting him and yourself. Then is when things can start falling apart.
BF!! how you doing dear. Still boasting that curvalicious body?
Former Member
My belief is if it's meant to be it will and if it's not, nothing u do will make it work. Unless one person makes the ultimate sacrifice.
Former Member
quote:Originally posted by BeautifulFreak:
My relationship with R is falling apart and I don't know what to do. We seem to be growing apart. I know many of you have been in long term relationships. Do you have any advice for me?
I think you sound insecure.
Former Member
quote:Originally posted by china:quote:Originally posted by BeautifulFreak:
My relationship with R is falling apart and I don't know what to do. We seem to be growing apart. I know many of you have been in long term relationships. Do you have any advice for me?
I think you sound insecure.
I doin't think you know what you're talking about!
Former Member
quote:Originally posted by BeautifulFreak:quote:Originally posted by china:quote:Originally posted by BeautifulFreak:
My relationship with R is falling apart and I don't know what to do. We seem to be growing apart. I know many of you have been in long term relationships. Do you have any advice for me?
I think you sound insecure.
I doin't think you know what you're talking about!
Just my observation.
If I have misinterpreted you, please elaborate on the issue at hand.
Former Member
quote:Originally posted by Mr.T:quote:Originally posted by BeautifulFreak:quote:Originally posted by Mr.T:
Can you give us some ideas as to what you think are the causes why it is falling apart? Is it financial, or are you not as attractive as before?
LOL...now why does me being attractive or lack of have to do with anything...and R thinks I'm the most beautiful woman in the entire universe!
That's not the issue!
You'll be surprised to learn that it is a very important consideration for many men. A man likes to be looking at someone who turns him on all the time. As you get older and spend more time on the kids, the man can easily feel that you are neglecting him and yourself. Then is when things can start falling apart.
What about what a woman wants??? All I hear is what men want!...lol... I want to look at and get "turned on" by a man that keeps himself up to date, if I have to work out and look good so does he...it only seems fair!
Former Member
quote:Originally posted by antabanta:
BF!! how you doing dear. Still boasting that curvalicious body?
...Hey Anta, It's been a long time...and yes, still got it!
Former Member
quote:Originally posted by china:quote:Originally posted by BeautifulFreak:quote:Originally posted by china:quote:Originally posted by BeautifulFreak:
My relationship with R is falling apart and I don't know what to do. We seem to be growing apart. I know many of you have been in long term relationships. Do you have any advice for me?
I think you sound insecure.
I doin't think you know what you're talking about!
Just my observation.
If I have misinterpreted you, please elaborate on the issue at hand.
I thought I was very clear on the issue at hand!
quote:Originally posted by BeautifulFreak:
What about what a woman wants??? All I hear is what men want!...lol... I want to look at and get "turned on" by a man that keeps himself up to date, if I have to work out and look good so does he...it only seems fair!
I can only offer you wisdom through the eyes of a man. For wisdom through the eyes of a woman you would have to wait and see what the female contributors put forward.
Former Member
quote:Originally posted by Mr.T:quote:Originally posted by BeautifulFreak:
What about what a woman wants??? All I hear is what men want!...lol... I want to look at and get "turned on" by a man that keeps himself up to date, if I have to work out and look good so does he...it only seems fair!
I can only offer you wisdom through the eyes of a man. For wisdom through the eyes of a woman you would have to wait and see what the female contributors put forward.
And I appreciate the wisdom...thank you!
Of course, if your man looks out of shape, then you should demand that he either shape up, or ship out. You can abstain from sex and give him weekly weight targets to reach if he wants anything for the weekend. If he can't accept that, then ask him which woman wants a man who is only good for 2 minutes in bed.
Former Member
quote:Originally posted by Mr.T:
Of course, if your man looks out of shape, then you should demand that he either shape up, or ship out. You can abstain from sex and give him weekly weight targets to reach if he wants anything for the weekend. If he can't accept that, then ask him which woman wants a man who is only good for 2 minutes in bed.
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Former Member
Beautiful, here is a question for you. Why do you think your relation is falling apart?
Who cares. What is sought are solutions. A woman knows when something is not right. Just ask your own partner.quote:Originally posted by Dog Unleashed:
Beautiful, here is a question for you. Why do you think your relation is falling apart?
Former Member
quote:Originally posted by Dog Unleashed:
Beautiful, here is a question for you. Why do you think your relation is falling apart?
Maybe he said he prefer her beauty over her freakshow.
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