* I was 100% right! You are, indeed, an extraordinarily exceptional woman. You are most happy and contented with your lot in life. That's great. It's a gift to be happy with your lot in life. I'm happy for you.

 

* So you are a nurse, huh ? Lemme say this. You nurses are a special breed---very caring, very loving---full of empathy, warmth, and compassion.

 

* One last thing---Rev is happy being old fashioned---the mistress likes me the way I am---at least that's what she says.hahahaha

 

Rev

I'm not a nurse. I meant I take care of boo boos and other ailments that they may suffer from

 

Good for you! Some women like being a homemaker while others like having a career and a family. It's all a preference.

 

There's also cases where the woman has no choice but to work and take care of a family.

 

And then there's the women who rely solely on sugar daddies

 

We come in all kinds

That Imran was a ladies man in his day. During the late 1980s' when he was on the tour of the West Indies he may have been in a long relationship with Sita White a yoga instructor in LA who was the daughter of Lord White

Some Guyanese men except Gilbakka often refer to their wives as "mistresses." I grew up with the understanding that a mistress is an "outside woman."

So, having noticed that our friend Rev mentions his "mistress" more than once in this thread, I started scratching my luxuriant grey head, then I reached for my trusty Webster dictionary.

And, indeed, it defines mistress as " a woman other than his wife with whom a married man has a continuing sexual relationship."

Luckily for Rev, my dictionary also provides these other meanings for the M word:

-- "a woman who employs or supervises servants."

Well, I was still scratching my mane because I can't picture Rev as a servant being supervised by a mistress.

So, next definition:

-- "a woman who has power, authority, or ownership: as the female head of a household."

Aha! This is the definition that applies to Rev's mistress! Only a man who has no household responsibility will spend entire days on GNI.

Keep on laughing, Rev. You are a merry man indeed.

BTW, I call my wife "Missy" as in Boss woman.

 

 

 

I call my wife "Missy" as in Boss woman

 

The bookman has got a boss

Regrettably, Wally. She usurped my throne.

Yuh Daddy never told yuh : Man ah man, man nah tobacco stick"??/

 

* You summed it up very nicely riya, "we(women) come in all kinds."

 

* You also come in all sizes.lol-- and wear different number of "hats".

 

* For example---riya proudly wears 3 hats; Zeenat Aman wore 2 hats(wife and mother); Priety Zinta wears one hat(professional actress).

 

Rev

 

ha ha ha ha ha

 

* Excellent research on mistresses gilly bhai. Very informative, indeed. Nice to know the Rev's usage of the word piqued your curiosity.

 

* In the past, I have said on this forum that it is every man's dream to have a wife, a mistress, and a girlfriend. That is a truth by the way.

 

* Well, guess what Gilbakka ? The Rev is unique---I am blessed to have all of those---wife/mistress/girlfriend/lover/first lady/dreamgirl, etc, etc all wrapped up in one woman.hahaha

 

* Bwoy gilly, the first time I laid eye on that woman---I liked what my eye was seeing. Yuh know us guys---we admire body parts.lol----but then

 I talked to the woman---and the more we talked the more I realized that this was the woman I wanted to adventure in life with.

 

* It's been a wonderful journey and adventure so far---hopefully we still have decades together left.

 

* One last thing gilbakka---I think every man deserves a woman who makes him look forward to tomorrow---I have that woman gilly---she is the complete package---wife/mistress/girlfriend/lover/first lady/dreamgirl, etc, etc

 

* DAMN! THE REV IS LONG-WINDED. Hope I didn't pi$$ off any of the guys on GNI.

 

Rev

All this talk about Wife/Mistress/Girlfriend, I was watching Mike & Mike this morning and the girl was asking Steph Curry if he has to check his friends since his mom was so hot. I didn't know who she was but wanted to see what they call hot. Needless I fail to see where she is hot but this is what I first encountered when I went looking to see if she was really hot. FUNNY

 

 

 

Bai, me Daddy tell me nuff ting, but me Missy de get coaching from Mrs J, the boss o' Dr J.

Dem use to call demself "feminists" and proclaim "equal rights" but me Missy prappa infringe on me rights.

ksazma:

 

* Are you saying you never "eyed-up" or checked out any of your friend's mothers ?

 

* By the way, what does "MILF" mean ?

 

* BOYS WILL ALWAYS BE BOYS.

 

* Actually some guys have actually done it with their horny mother-in-laws---now that's crossing the line----but it has been done.

 

Rev

Some men does refer to them wife as old lady when them rass mo old than them wife go figure

 

* I thought it was Guyanese boys who referred to their mothers as "old lady" ? I've heard "the ole lady this---the old lady that.

 

* But I have never heard any man referring to his wife as "old lady." Maybe I'm out of touch.

 

* But then again--maybe when men start experiencing celibacy that's when they refer to wives as "old lady."

 

* Where is old boy antabanta or maybe old boy stormborn---they may have answers--I won't ask my friend gilbakka---he calls the boss "Missy".

 

 Rev

I doubt I would find my friends' mothers hot. They would be too old for hot even when I was young.

 

ksazma:

 

* I guess after devouring all those playboy and penthouse magazines at Jeetendra's in Kitty market, no friend's mother appealed to you or appeared hot to you---they were too ancient compared to the naked models you drooled over.hahaha

 

Rev

I admired her very much in 'qurbani' especially in that song with Vinod K., she was such an elegant actress, feel really sorry for her for the abuse she went through, I hope he was dealt with. I love her movies.

Bai Rev, I didn't drool over the models. They are just for entertainment.

 

* You grew up in a convent or something---all of us teenaged guys used to drool longingly and fantasize over those models. ASK NEHRU. He was the leader.hahahaha

 

* Man look ksazma--cut out yuh somberness when yuh chat with the Rev.

 

Rev

I didn't grow up in a convent Rev nor did I need to drool. I was fortunate to play house with my Putagee neighbor name Queenie who was always a good wife to me.

Did u get a chance?

 

* So you experienced the best and most memorable 60 seconds in yuh life with a putagee gal named Queenie, right ?hahaha

 

Rev

I never had to measure time in seconds bai.

* Are you saying your first time was over in milliseconds not seconds ?hahaha

 

* Ksazma bai---you're responding to me like a mature 45 year old man----in other words you're being a tad too serious---lighten up.

 

* My first time as a teenager was with the maid and it was over in a flash---best 60 seconds ever.hahahaha

 

* Nothing wrong with laughing and poking fun at yuhself ksazma---Rev makes fun of himself all the time.

 

Rev

Po maid

 

* Yuh learn from yuh mistakes and failures bally---not yuh successes.

 

* Maid frustration was Rev's learning curve.hahaha

 

Rev

I doubt you can be more jovial than I Rev. However I still distort the facts. Actually I only kick some people's asses because their asses deserve to be kicked.

* Bwoy Ksazma, the Rev seriously doubts he can be as jovial and pleasant as you. Stay jolly and good-natured my friend. It's a nice trait to have.

 

Rev

Rev, don't forget that in NA there are grandparents who fill that void for children when their mother/parents at work. I made that choice to work, my hubby never complain when I was home with the kids, but I am glad now that the kids are in high school and junior high, and according to my eldest I am her ATM. I think a/some woman can do all three jobs. I am a wife, Mother, (not an executive), but my job is very demanding, and a foster mother as well, oh did I mention every morning I cook lunch/dinner and pack the kids lunch bag and still make in to work at 9:00 am. Our great grand mothers and grand mothers used to do it in Guyana 

Ms Hepburn is Correct cause too many times you will hear "please not tonight, I am tired" and that would not work with Uncle Nehru

Rev

 

Nice topic as usual in social.

 

My wife is an executive but takes off her executive hat when she gets home. That leaves her with only two hats when she gets home.

 

As for a mother, god has created women with a motherly instinct and love for her children that us men cannot even fathom. My wife's dedication and commitment for our children is unmatched and I am certain it is the same in all households.

 

As for a wife, she is the boss and I tend to take a backseat in the relationship. Marriage is about compromise and men who understand this can get a lot more in a relationship. I help a lot around the house and it makes life a lot easier for her.

 

Spending quality time together is also ver important. Going for walks and holding hands will keep the magic burning. I have been at my marriage for 26 years now.

 

So she wears the third hat with no problems whatsoever.

 

Kathryn is unfortunately wrong about a woman wearing three hats. It is quite possible if her husband supports her. I can only speak for my household.

 

 

 

Nehru Bhai

 

You need to become more creative and create the right mood. Rev made some very nice posts about creating the right moods etc. read up on his posts.

 

A woman is very complicated, you just need to create the right atmosphere and mood. 

OK Bhai, I will certainly take a look cause I am always looking for new and better techniques.

Sita:

 

* First of all I had a good laugh reading your daughter calling you her "ATM".lol

 

* You mentioned the role of grandparents---I was 8 years old and my youngest sister was 2 when my Mom started her business---so Mom wore 3 hats---wife/mother/businesswoman---I don't believe Mom could have started a business if my grandmother didn't live with us---grandparents are the best---they spoil you.

 

* Anyway, Let's revisit what Kathryn Hepburn said:

 

"It is extremely difficult for a woman to wear 3 hats--wife, mother and executive---she must choose."

 

* There are tens of millions of working mothers and wives who would disagree with Miss Hepburn. riya and sita on GNI disagree with her. And I know my Mom disagrees with her because I asked her.

 

* The first lady says Kathryn Hepburn was never a wife nor a mother, so she ought not be talking about how extremely difficult wearing 3 hats is for a woman. She only wore 1 hat.

 

* Regarding your cooking "roti and curry" every morning sita and packing lunch for the kids, well, you are a MOTHER, and I am sure you do it with utmost love.

 

* One last comment---I read this a long time ago---and it's true:

 

MOTHER = One person who does the work of twenty. For free.

 

*Glad to know you enjoy wearing 3 hats sita.

 

 

Rev

Yuji bhai:

 

* You have hit all the right buttons in that post. I see the "boss" has done a great job in conditioning you to be the perfect husband.hahaha

 

* But seriously yuji, you have the right attitude for a husband. Any man who showers his wife with the respect, the attention, and the affection she deserves  is guaranteed to be happily married.

 

* A lot of men take for granted the person who most deserve their gratitude and attention---that is their wife. Such men will never be happy.

 

* Once again, excellent post above yuji. It was a joy to read.

 

Rev

Rev

 

You are most welcome. Your threads in Social are excellent.

this two fags

warrior:

 

* Your mean-spiritedness is understandable. Hope in your next life you are blessed with a loving and lasting marriage. Feel free to cuss and be abusive if it would relieve you of your bitterness and disappointment.

 

Rev

Rev, be kind to my lost brother. He was neglected as a child and did not mature emotionally. This is what we might term "socially maladjusted".

Skelly bhai:

 

* You are 1000% correct. Your "lost brother" warrior is most definitely "socially maladjusted" Warrior is the kind of man who would walk into a man's living room, buss a load of sh1t on his carpet, then thump his chest and brag about being courteous and magnanimous.

 

Rev