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When I first left Guyana for Canada on Sunday September 24, 1967, in the aircraft I sat beside a young Afro Guyanese woman about 20 years old. It was our first time on an airplane and we supported each other in our nervousness of the aircraft and anxiety of an unknown country, with an uncertain life ahead of us.

During those hours we became friends in our support of each other, but we did not exchange contact information.

In Toronto we parted ways, I came to school in Vancouver and she went East to a university, I believe might be in Montreal.

She was about five feet six inches tall and small built and will now be a senior.  

During the decades, I think of her often and wondered how she made out in life in our new country, as I have done.     

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I believe we all bear that same sentiment, pertaining to people we have had associated with in the past and did not keep in touch with, we now wonder how they are doing. There was a school friend for whom I was looking for, when I found his contact info and made the connection, he had passed away a few months prior. Such is life.       

ball
Originally Posted by cain:

Just reread Tola's post and had a thought the banna stuck his head up that one dress....accidently...also.

Sorry to buss you bubble Cain, different women, a generation apart.

I don't remember much about the first one, because it was dark under her dress. But the second one was gorgeous looking and maybe a grandma now, so I should intensify my search.

 

Ball, I had a British friend in the 60s and lost contact for over 30 years. When I recently tried to make contact again, she died last year. If only I had tried earlier.   

Tola
Originally Posted by ball:

Communication today and what we had 30 years ago, is not as abundant as now, we had toll call now we have Skype ETC.

Rightful so, for a  while  I worked at the estate telephone exchange and all calls had to be booked, literally. They were recorded in book and placed in  order.

The system was manual with connections to two other operators to get thru to GT. Overseas took about a week with submarine cables.

 

The British managers were every abusive to us [at the bottom of the ladder] when their calls are not placed in timely manner.

If we bug the other operators about placing our calls, they just hang up on us.

I recently returned to the same estate and noticed  the receptionist  with a master telephone set from a tel system [Nortel] that I install in Canada. Calls are now direct dialled.

 

The antenna of the estate radio dispatch system started my career in international marine communication and electronics. Its another long story.        

Tola
Last edited by Tola
Originally Posted by Django:

Suh you been tinkering with electronics for a long time,

what year was that? i stared in 76.

If I mention my days with vacuum tubes, before men first went to the moon, Cane might call me an old fart.

But I can say, it took me to many ports of call, wid broken hearts left behind. Hopefully, not any Guyanese kids looking for their daddy.

South Pacific, Barbados, Germany and Croatia was the best, Japan was more accommodating, but Canada will always be home.  

Tola

Wow! Tola, you left 48 years ago...I have you pegged in your late 60s.

Cain is in his early 60s or late 50s

Your first flight reminds me of mine. My flight out of Guyana was made easier by a nice, young man. He was going back to the US from visiting Guyana. I can't remember much of our conversation, except that he was very friendly and engaging. I'm pretty chatty, so we got along just fine. I think of him once in a blue moon, but not enough to try and seek him out.

 

I wish you the best of luck should you decide to find your travel buddy.

FM
Originally Posted by Miraver:

Wow! Tola, you left 48 years ago...I have you pegged in your late 60s.

Cain is in his early 60s or late 50s

Your first flight reminds me of mine. My flight out of Guyana was made easier by a nice, young man. He was going back to the US from visiting Guyana. I can't remember much of our conversation, except that he was very friendly and engaging. I'm pretty chatty, so we got along just fine. I think of him once in a blue moon, but not enough to try and seek him out.

 

I wish you the best of luck should you decide to find your travel buddy.

Miraver, you are good at math.

Cain said he is 51, but you know how some Guyanese people dea.

 

I tell this true story that describes life in the Caribbean.

 

Recently I was in Tortola,BVI where I have a friend  with a large office building in town. 

 

One evening, while he was doing paper work in the building and I waited for us to go out to dinner, I wondered around taking photographs of the nearby buildings.

A local lady approached me and ask that I take her picture.

I did and gave her my card to email the photos.

 

Then she said ' Are you married ?' I said no.

She then said 'How old are you', I said 43.

She said 'You are too young for me, I am 52'.

I said I don't like to lie, I am actually 68.

She said 'You are too old for me'.

 

She then gave me hug, a kiss on the cheek and we parted ways.

I might never see her again.

 

Caribbean women like to choose their men.    

    

Tola
Originally Posted by Miraver:

68 is a fabulous age, Tola!

Yes, women from the Caribbean know what they want

I am having the best time of my life, travelling on photo assignments to other countries, with a companionship we enjoy.

She is private and do her own thing, but when  we meet at a sunset dinner, it seem magical in friendship.   

Tola
Originally Posted by Tola:
Originally Posted by Miraver:

68 is a fabulous age, Tola!

Yes, women from the Caribbean know what they want

I am having the best time of my life, travelling on photo assignments to other countries, with a companionship we enjoy.

She is private and do her own thing, but when  we meet at a sunset dinner, it seem magical in friendship.   

Hi Tola, it good to know that you are having the time of your life! Now that I know you're an expert photographer, I might reach out to you for camera tips.

When you say, "she is private", what do you mean? 

Looks like you've been blessed with an unmatched gift of friendship.

FM
Originally Posted by Miraver:
Originally Posted by Amral:

threads are always derailed, you know that

I know. We oldies know that. We oldies also know that we dus bicker...even bicker like hens! 

Talk about yourself, I am fowl cock

 

In BVI, chicken roam freely and belong to everyone.

If it lays an egg in your yard, its yours. If you want to bush-cook with a bunjyl  chicken its yours.

 

But dem Guyanese spoil it for every one. Dem start selling de chickens.     

Tola
Originally Posted by Tola:
Originally Posted by Miraver:
Originally Posted by Amral:

threads are always derailed, you know that

I know. We oldies know that. We oldies also know that we dus bicker...even bicker like hens! 

Talk about yourself, I am fowl cock

 

In BVI, chicken roam freely and belong to everyone.

If it lays an egg in your yard, its yours. If you want to bush-cook with a bunjyl  chicken its yours.

 

But dem Guyanese spoil it for every one. Dem start selling de chickens.     

Hahah! The rooster rules!

We had our bush-cook with fry fish. Such beautiful childhood memories popping up now

FM

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