Ray, Please allow me to add this.

http://youtu.be/AzxGBA5nwNc

amral:

The lyrics in this song says:

"Death may end a life but the spirit carries on. I hold you in my heart so you're really never gone."

* Bibi will never be gone from your heart amral. You wrote some touching words a few weeks ago in social. You made it clear that you'd never get married again if you were ever single again. You had genuine praise for your lovely and loving wife.

* Listen to this when you get the chance:

NEVER REALLY GONE:

This is such a beautiful song. My all time favorite.

Feel free my friend...I can't comprehend what it feels like to lose a spouse

I hear you Bro.  None of us can be in Amral's shoe until it affects you personally. However, we have a sense of his grief and our prayers and words of support and comfort may help him to cope better. At least, I hope.  May Allah protect his Family.

You guys can play Jim Reeves; I won't complain....

http://youtu.be/4ndMZqT6i4I

* Stormborn is your typical Guyanese---he loves Jim Reeves.

Jim Reeves THIS WORLD IS NOT MY HOME:

All of us on this board who have lost loved ones can attest to this. You don't know how it feels until you experience it. Amral, may god grant you strength to cope with this latest tragedy in your life.

I love Jim reeves like a love to be serenaded by a chorus of  thousand screeching banshees

My song for Amral. It is dear to me for the same reason....saying goodbye to one you love as much as life.

 Lyrics in english

Andrea Bocelli & Sarah Brightman
Miscellaneous
Time to Say Goodbye
When I'm alone
I dream on the horizon
and words fail;
yes, I know there is no light
in a room
where the sun is not there
if you are not with me.
At the windows
show everyone my heart
which you set alight;
enclose within me
the light you
encountered on the street.

Time to say goodbye,
to countries I never
saw and shared with you,
now, yes, I shall experience them,
I'll go with you
on ships across seas
which, I know,
no, no, exist no longer;
with you I shall experience them.

When you are far away
I dream on the horizon
and words fail,
and yes, I know
that you are with me;
you, my moon, are here with me,
my sun, you are here with me.
with me, with me, with me,

Time to say goodbye,
to countries I never
saw and shared with you,
now, yes, I shall experience them,
I'll go with you
on ships across seas
which, I know,
no, no, exist no longer;
with you I shall re-experience them.
I'll go with you
on ships across seas
which, I know,
no, no, exist no longer;
with you I shall re-experience them.
I'll go with you,
I with you.

nice Storm

* Nice words skelly---the lyrics in the song below will connect with amral:

"It's hard to breathe now you're gone. It's hard for me to move on. For some it's just a day. For me I'll have to find a way. Just takes time--time to heal."

A BROKEN LIFE--A SONG ABOUT LOSS

I hear you....

ASJ - please post 'Duniya say dila gahkar'

DUNIYA SAY DIL LAGAA KAR DUNIYA SE KYA MILEGA
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ALU1Sao-PNY

FILM : URAN KHATOLA 1955
SINGER : MOHD RAFI
LYRICS : SHAKEEL BADAYUNI
MUSIC : NAUSHAD

3) O DOOR KE MUSAAFIR HUMKO BHI SAATH LE LE RE

http://www.mastimag.com/download.php?song_id=34748

Chale aaj tum jahaan se, huyee zindagee paraayee
You leave this world today, my life is not mine anymore
Tumhen mil gayaa tikaanaa, humein maut bhee na aayee
You found your niche, I didnt even find death

(O dhoor ke musaafir, hum ko bhi saath le le re
O traveller to a far place, take me along
Hum ko bhi saath le le, hum rahe gaye akele)2
Take me along I am left all alone

Thoone wo de diyaa gum, bemauth mar gaye hum
You gave me such a grief, I died without dying
Dil ut gayaa jahaan se, (le chal humein yahaan se)2
My heart wants none of this world, take me away from here
Kis kaam ki ye duniyaa jo zindagee se khele re
I want nothing of this world, the world that plays with your life
Hum ko bhi saath le le, hum rahe gaye akele
Take me along I am left all alone

Sooni hai dil ki raahein, khaamosh hain nigaahein
Deserted are the paths of my heart, vacant is my sight
Naakaam hasraton kaa (utane ko hai janaazaa)2
Now is the funeral of my unfulfilled dreams
Chaaron tharaf lage hain, barabaadiyon ke mele re
Devastation all around me
Hum ko bhi saath le le, hum rahe gaye akele
Take me along I am left all alone

(O dhoor ke musaafir, hum ko bhi saath le le re
O traveller to a far place, take me along
Hum ko bhi saath le le, hum rahe gaye akele)2
Take me along I am left all alone

Trans: Saeed

Thank you Saeedbhai:

MOVIE : DIL EK MANDIR 1963

SINGER: MOHD RAFI

LYRICS: SHAILENDRA

MUSIC : SHANKAR JAIKISHAN

36) YAAD NA JAYE BEETE DINON KEE

http://www.mastimag.com/download.php?song_id=33070

(Yaad naa jaaye, beete dinon kee
Memories won't leave me, memories of days past
Jaa ke naa aaye jo din
Days gone never to return
Dil kyo bulaaye, unhe dil kyo bulaaye?)2
Why forget them, why will my heart forget them?

(Din jo pakheru hote, pinjare mein main rakh letaa)2
If the days were birds, I would keep them in a cage
(Paalataa unako jatan se,)2 motee ke daane detaa
I would tend to them with care/love, feed them pearls
Seene se rahataa lagaaye
Keep them close to my breast/heart

Yaad naa jaaye, beete dinon kee
Memories won't leave me, memories of days past
Jaa ke naa aaye jo din
Days gone never to return
Dil kyo bulaaye, unhe dil kyo bulaaye?
Why forget them, why will my heart forget them?

(Tasaweer unakee chhupaa ke, rakhadoo jahaa jee chaahe)2
I could hide her picture, keep it anywhere I chose
(Man mein basee wo murat)2 lekin mite naa mitaye
But the one ensconced in my heart, will not erase however I try
Kahane ko hain wo paraaye
Even though she is supposed to belong to another

Yaad naa jaaye, beete dinon kee
Memories won't leave me, memories of days past
Jaa ke naa aaye jo din
Days gone never to return
Dil kyo bulaaye, unhe dil kyo bulaaye?
Why forget them, why will my heart forget them?

Trans: Saeed

THE VIDEO:

YAAD NA JAAYE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m8L2hVJ6Rnw

mati kahe kumhar se tu kya roundhe mohe
ik din aisa aayega main roundungi toye

"the soil asks the potter what is your status that you crush me 
a day will come when I will crush  you (when you will die). "

aayen hain to jayenge raja rank sabhi
ek singhashan chadhi chale ek bandhe zanzir

"If they have come ,they will go .
Either it is the King who sits on the throne or a beggar 
who is bound from the chain ."

durbal ko na sataiye jaki moti haaye
bina jeebh ke haaye ke loha bhasm hoyi jaye

"Do not persecute the weak whose curse is so strong, 
without use of the tounge (means without speaking any wrong word)
it burns a strong thing as iron to ashes."

chalti chakki dekh ke diya kabira roye 
do patan ke beech mein sabut bacha na koye

"Kabirdas ji says that he cries seeing the moving trademill
where between the two slabs nothing remained unbroken 
Sense : He cries to see the the cycle of the time
 that engulfs everything slowly ."

haad jale ju lakadi kesh jale ju ghas
sab jag  jalta dekh ke bhaye kabir udaas

"Kabirdas ji says :at the end of life the bone burns like the wood 
and the hair burns as grass 
Seeing all world set on fire he gets sad ."

kabira khai kot ki paani pive na koye 
jaayi mile jab gang se to gangotak hoye

"Kabirdas ji says that nobody drinks the dirty water of  the trench 
but when it meets to the Ganga then it becomes as pious as the water from Gangotri .
Sense: when the human being lives lost in this world it is like the dirty water 
but as he meets with the God he becomes as pious as ganga ."

tulsi tulsi sab kahe tulsi ban ki ghas 
ho gayi kirpa ram ki to ban gayen tulsidas 

"Tulsidas ji says :Everyone is speaking tulsi tulsi ,tulsi is the shrub of jungle
but as he got the favour of lord Ram , he became Tulsidas."

saanch barabar tap nahi jhoot barabar pap
jake hirdaya sanch hai take hirdaya prabhu 

"There is no penance as the truth .There is no sin as a lie .
Where there is truth , there you resides Oh Lord ."

dukh mein sumiran sab karen sukh mein kare na koyi 
jo sukh mein sumiran kare to dukh 

"Everyone remembers Lord in sorrow .No body remembers in happiness.
Why there remains sorrow when one remembers lord during happiness?"

rahiman badan ko dekh ke laghu na dije dari 
jahan kaam aaye sui kya kare talwaar

"Rahim Says dont forget the smaller finding the bigger
both have their own values.What is the use of the sword there where we need a neddle?"

rahiman dhaga prem ka na todo chitkaye 
toote se phir na jude jude to gaanth pad jaaye

"Rahim adresses the human saying don't break harshly the thread of love
it could not be joined further and if joins ,a knot appears there ."   

the best three paras of this song that lures me the most are -

Rahim was a a Krishna devotee .He was a great donor .He used to gaze downcast  when he donated the charity to anyone.At this his contemporary Tulsidas ji send him a message asking these words- 

aisi deni den ju, kit sikhe hosain 
jyu jyu kar uncho karyo tyun tyun niche nain 

"Sir , where have you learnt from such a type of donation
where you keep downcasting your gaze while raising your hands to donate?"
Then Rahim replies him saying 

"denhaar koi aur hai bhejat jo din rain 
log bharam humpar karen taso niche nain" 

"the donor is someone else who sends all this to me 
people are confused  with me (that donor to be Rahim) so my gaze is downcasted . "

Tulsi is sansaar mein sabse miliye dhayi
na jaane kis roop mein Narayana mil jaayen

'Tulsidas ji says rush to meet everyone in this world
because it is not known that in which guise you meet the lord Narayana ."

THE LAST FAREWELL -Roger Whittaker

"For you are beautiful and I have loved you dearly, more dearly than the spoken words can tell."

amral Bhai:

Here is a bajan from the late great Mohamed rafi:

ISHWAR ALLAH

Bhai Amral please try to stay strong, I know it is very easy for us to say

things like that, BUT it is you who is going through such a difficult time of your life, may Allah help you greatly and shower his blessings and his Rehmah on you and your family, Aameen.

Please do not wish her Khuda Hafez/Good Bye, Becuz she will be following you like a shadow everywhere you go and she will protect you and guide you. You will see/feel her beautiful smile whenever you see flowers bloom, and you will feel her presence in each and every heartbeat and breath of yours. Each time you miss her close your eyes and try to recollect all those happy memories and believe me you will feel her presence right there with you. Please take care of yourself and your family, Bibi will be happy when you and your children are happy. Wishing you the best. Jazak Allah Khairun Kaseerah. 

"Jab Jab Bahar aayi Aur phool Muskuraye

Mujhe TUM Yaad Aaye.." Each word is like

piercing my heart, oh Allah please help all

those who have lost their loved one's.

Ek Pyar Aur Wafa Ki Tasveer Manta Hoon

Tasveer Kya Tumhe Mein Taqdeer Manta Hoon......

Mumkin Hai Zindagani Kur Jaye Bewafayi?

Mujhe TUM Yaad Aaye......

I noticed that Bhai Amral liked the Interview of Simi Garewal. Therefore including her song & I hope he will like it...

Bhai Amral I thought that you like Simi Garewal's songs

therefore tried to include her famous songs. Please Bhai

if you do not like any of the songs I posted feel free to delete them.

I made the selections carefully but everyone's taste if different and

I understand that. I am sorry.

Bhai ASJ since you are the Moderator for the Bollywood section can U please

check the songs that I have posted, if they are okay for Bhai Amral, and if not before he sees them can you please delete them.  I would be grateful to you. I know how He is feeling becuz I went thru that myself and is still going thru to this day, I admit it is very difficult to handle the loss of a loved one. Thanks a lot Bhai.